We demand clarity from others..while living in our own confusion…

We want others to read our silence…
To decode our moods…
To guess our fears and respond the way we wish..
We expect people to understand and without us saying it…

but in reality?
Half the time….Really, I don’t even understand what’s going on inside me..

My mind is always like a mystifying puzzle…
I say “I’m fine” but inside, I’m breaking in every way…
I say” I don’t care” but feel hurt, when they leave…
I crave clarity but live in my own confusion..
And yet.. I expect the loved one’s to understand us…

Now look at you.
You do the same.
You pretend you’re strong but you want someone to notice your shaking hands…
You act detached, but you want someone to fight for you…
And then I realized – It’s not just me. You’re the same….

From the outside, People look at you and think:
“Why is he like that?”
“Why is he overthinking?”
“Why is he behaving odd?”

They don’t see how you bury your feelings instead of speaking them…
To them you’re just complicated, confusing and unpredictable…

You can’t expect people to understand a mind you haven’t understood yourself..
Simply,
You expect clarity;
They expect clarity;
But none of us have clarity inside us….

As I see it,
We are confused souls demanding clarity and understanding from confused souls….

It’s easy to blame others for not understanding us…
It’s really hard to admit that, We haven’t taken time to understand Ourselves…
We stop demanding clarity from others until we fight for clarity within ourselves…

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